For many
of us, today’s Gospel may seem to run contrary to our experiences. How many of
us have prayed for something, and seemingly gotten no answer? Does this mean
that God has not heard our prayers- that he has not answered us, or we are
somehow not praying hard enough? How do we reconcile what seems to happen in
our prayers with today’s Gospel?
God
answers all prayers- however, he does not always answer them in the way we
expect. Sometimes the answer is no, or
not yet. Sometimes the answer is “I have something better in store for you, if
you trust me.” Jesus reminds us in the Gospel that our Heavenly Father will
bestow “good things” on those who ask for them. God, who knows us better than
we know ourselves, knows what our needs truly are- and is waiting to give us
these good things- if we only ask for them.
In order
for our prayer to bear more fruit, it is important to recognize that God is not
a divine “genie,” whose only purpose is to grant the wishes of humankind.
Prayers of petition are important, but
unless we are also willing to pray for knowledge of God’s will, these prayers
of petition can only take us so far. As St. Paul says in his letter to the
Colossians, The goal of our prayer is to “attain full knowledge of God’s will
through perfect wisdom and spiritual insight,” in order that we may “lead a
life worthy of the Lord and pleasing to him in every way.”
Praying
for and accepting God’s will is difficult, because it requires us to let go of
our selfish wants and desires, and accept God’s will as our own. This requires great trust. Trust that God will indeed provide us with
good things, which will help us to grow closer to Him, and seek after the life
which is to come.
Each day
at Mass, when we pray the Our Father, I challenge you to truly think about the
meaning of the words “thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.” This is
just one example of a way in which we pray every day for knowledge of God’s
will for our lives. Do we take this part of the prayer seriously? Or do we
gloss over it as we say it, because it has become routine? When we truly make
this prayer our own, and begin to accept God’s will, we are better able to see
how God does answer prayer, and we will be able to recognize that His answers
to our prayers are continually guiding us to knowledge of his will.